How to love your nerd
// December 12th, 2008 // 0 Comments // people
Rands is a great writer as well as a true nerd so he writes from the heart and with great insight when he describes in The Nerd Handbook how a nerd thinks, what makes a nerd different to you and I, and how the life partner of a nerd can help create a lasting relationship with a nerd.

I love how he details the nerd’s obsession with the latest project, and how a new relationship can be just like a new project. That can be a problem once the nerd believes he’s got you figured out:
As you discovered when you were the project, your nerd’s focus can be deliciously overwhelming, but it will stop. Once a nerd believe he fully knows how a system works, the challenge to understand ceases to exist and he moves on in search of The Next High.
While I don’t know who you are or why in the world you chose a nerd for your companion, I do know that you are not a knowable system. I know that you are messy, just like your nerd. Being your own quirky self will be more than enough to present new and interesting challenges to your nerd.
More great advice in The Nerd Handbook…
[Cool "I like code" tee from Chezza & Scottie @ Molt:n ]




